It is often hard to accept that a child is growing up and becoming sexually aware, and maybe behaving in ways that you don't like or may disappoint you.

Don't give up if things don't go according to plan. The important thing is that you're making the effort. No-one gets it right all the time, and your child will appreciate that you have tried, even if they don't let you know this. Talk to other parents and see if they have any ideas on dealing with tricky questions and issues

Parentline Plus is a charity offering help and information to anyone caring for a child on all aspects of childcare. They have a leaflet called "Time to talk about sex" which aims to help parents discuss sexual matters with their children so they develop healthy attitudes and make wise decisions.
Look it up on:
www.parentlineplus.org.uk

A similar leaflet is available from the family planning organisation tel 01865 719418/413

If you think that your child might be gay and want to talk to other parents in a similar position contact via email on Parents Enquiry Scotland on parentsenquiry@hotmail.com or phone 0131 5566047.

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